Asking My Girl Squad: Bridesmaid Proposals on a BUDGET

    March 21, 2018

    So, if you’ve been following my journey over the past 4 months, you would know that Joey and I got engaged! Engagement is such a fun season for us; a season filled with plans for our future, dreams of our family (one day!), and bickering over wedding budgets (whoever said planning for a wedding was glamorous/stress-free clearly has never planned a wedding before…).


    In the first few months of wedding planning, we visited our first wedding expo, I’ve tried on a few wedding dresses, and we just booked our venue! I’m officially #BecomingBalderrama in May 2019! Now… I would gladly walk down the aisle and marry the love of my life with absolutely no one around, but since we’re planning a traditional-ish wedding, I knew I wanted to ask my favorite gal pals to be a part of our big day in a very special way.


    I’ve been pinning things for my future bridesmaids for YEARS. When the time finally came to ask my best friends, I realized that I had NO MONEY, so I had to improvise. I consider myself pretty crafty, so I immediately set out to make the bridesmaid proposal boxes of my dreams while I was also balling on a budget.

    The Glasses

    Y’all, Etsy is your best friend in all things wedding planning… until it’s not. For a simple champagne flute featuring my bridesmaids’ names, I could’ve shelled out around $10 a glass. When you have money, this doesn’t sound too crazy. But when you have a small budget and eight girls to buy gifts for, you learn to improvise. So… I made them myself.


    I took to Etsy to order the name decals which ended up costing me around $3 a glass. For the glasses themselves, I bought 2 sets of 4 flutes from Target. Collectively, I saved about 50% of what I would’ve spent if I just ordered the glasses pre-made. I got to save money AND create something special for my friends. This was a win-win for me.

    (The application process.)

    The Rest of the Box


    In the rest of the box, I included a mini-bottle of champagne, some faux roses that I cut off of their stems, and my custom cards. I saw a design of a card that I loved on Etsy, but I couldn’t justify spending $50 on some cards just because they had rose gold foil.


    So I created a similar design in Photoshop and sent the design off to my fiancé’s dad. Luckily for us, Joey’s dad owns his own printing shop, and gladly took on the task to help me re-create the cards that I had fallen in love with. They turned out perfectly and all of my girls LOVED them!


    Four of my bridesmaids (including my Matron of Honor) live out of state, but the other four live in Los Angeles and gladly accepted my invitation for brunch. It was there that I gave them their boxes, made my Maid of Honor cry (happy tears!), and finished forming the BEST bride tribe a girl could ask for.


    Next up? We have to decide on bridesmaids dresses & plan my bachelorette party. Let the debauchery begin. 😉






  • Follow Up & Follow Through

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    January 18, 2018
  • So now that I'm able to step back and take a breath, I can finally sit down and truly reminisce about what took place on November 16, 2017. Joey and I have been talking about getting married, I swear, for almost as long as we've been dating and realistically we had been talking about getting engaged by the end of 2017. It was the next step in our relationship, and we were both ready to take it. So, as the end of the year was and still is approaching, I had been waiting anxiously for when our big day would come. The night before the proposal, I kid you not, I could not sleep. I was restless the entire night. It's kind of hard to explain it, but I felt like a little kid that was about to go to Disneyland for the first time and was just too excited to sleep. I didn't even know what I was excited about, but it definitely kept me up all night. And at this point, I had proposals on my mind! For over a week, I had a reoccurring dream every night of Joey dropping to his knee and asking me to marry him. So when Thursday morning rolled around, I woke up excited, but for no reason. Joey left to go to work, and there was not a single inkling that anything special would be happening that day. We had even made plans for what we would do later that evening whenever he got home from work (we were planning to go to our local neighborhood park to have a picnic and attempt to watch the sunset). Shortly after Joey left for work, I got up and began tackling my own work. I work from home, so I was chilling in my pajamas (aka my giraffe onesie) tackling my daily tasks. All of a sudden, my best friend from back home in Texas called me. We talk often, but this phone call during the day was completely out of the blue. I answer and she asks me if I've seen what she tagged me in on Instagram. I put her on speaker phone and immediately go to my notifications. We tag each other in memes and other weird things all the time, so I thought nothing of it. And that's when I saw HowHeAsked's post. "BIG NEWS! Someone is getting engaged around 5pm PT today – the proposer shared his love story on and he's hoping his girlfriend sees it before then!" My heart starting beating a mile a minute. I'm trying to click on the link in the bio to read this story because I was starting to connect the dots and I just didn't understand how all of this was happening. The moment I read the first line, I knew it. This was our story. And the love of my life was about to propose... to me! My best friend listened to me cry as I continued to read the most romantic love letter over the phone and after I was done, I heard a knock on my door. My two best friends from home (including the one who I was still on the phone with) were standing outside of my door. We cried, hugged, and gushed about how excited we were that I was finally getting engaged! Joey couldn't have picked a better duo to come and help me get ready. I've known both of them since 5th and 6th grade, so as I got ready, we drank champagne and laughed about the ridiculous memories of our adolescent years. Thankfully, Joey gave me a few hours to get ready and once my dress was on (which he provided and skillfully hid in our hallway closet for TWO WEEKS because he knew I would never go in there), my makeup was done, and I had one last sip of champagne, we were off! Where were we going..? I had no clue. As we were driving up the PCH to our secret destination, I sat in the car silently reflecting on the past 4 years of our relationship. Our relationship has always just made sense. He's my person and I couldn't imagine spending the rest of my life with anyone else. I looked over at the sun shining over the ocean and it was one of the prettiest skies I had seen in a long time. I honestly felt like God was blessing this day as He's blessed our entire relationship. We pull up to the venue and immediately get lost; my best friends and I aren't the best with directions, so we made a left when we should've gone straight, and then made a right when we should've made a left, but at the end of the day, WE MADE IT! I get out of the car and start walking down this beautifully lit pathway and I couldn't see him anywhere. I honestly thought he was going to pop out from somewhere, but then as I continued walking, I saw him in the distance. As I got closer, I saw that archway he was standing under that read "Idyllwild Pines." And that's when the tears started streaming down my face. Our unofficial relationship began at Idyllwild, he first told me he loved me at Idyllwild, and now he brought Idyllwild to me so we could finally come full circle in the place that holds so many memories for us. When I got to Joey, I immediately hugged him and he told me that I looked beautiful and started leading me to a beautiful setup of watercolor pine trees and lights. That's when I heard someone singing what I initially thought was an acoustic cover of "Wild Ones" by Flo Rida (it's been our "song" since before we even started dating) and the more I listened, I quickly realized the song was about us. The next part was a blur. The only thing I can remember clearly was Joey dropping to his knee, me sobbing, and him saying, "Mariah Ashley Lincoln Logs Robinson, will you marry me?" I said YES before he even fully asked me the question! As he slipped the most beautiful ring on my finger, our family joined us and we all cried, hugged, and cried some more. And after that was all said in done, Joey still had another surprise for me. He told me we were going to a wine tasting spot to have some wine, some finger foods, and just to all hang out with one another, but little did I know that all of our friends from college were there waiting to celebrate with us. The past 24 hours have been a whirlwind and we've been overwhelmed with the amount of love that has been sent our way, but we couldn't be more thankful. I get to marry my best friend, my confidant, my support system, my other half, the keeper of my secrets, and my PERSON. IT'S TIME TO PLAN A WEDDING, Y'ALL!

    I’m Engaged!

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